Thoughts I Wanted To Share

These last few days have been really hard on me, So I have been searching frantically over these days for someone that speaks to me. I have found a few paragraphs that I would like to share. :)

Don’t forget who you really are. And I’m not talking about your so-called real name. All names are made up by someone else, even the one your parents gave you. You know who you really are. When you’re alone at night, looking up at the stars, or maybe lying in your bed in total darkness, you know that nameless person inside you…Your muscles will toughen. So will your heart and soul. That’s necessary for survival. But don’t lose touch with that person deep inside you, or else you won’t really have survived at all.

How would your life be different if you stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the day you stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others. You have to accept not everyone is going to love you back, that's why it's most important to love yourself

I don't know why we all hang on to something we know we’re better off letting go. It’s like we’re scared to lose what we don’t even really have. Some of us say we’d rather have that something than absolutely nothing, But the truth is, to have it halfway is harder than not having it at all

“It is dreadful when something weighs on your mind, not to have a soul to unburden yourself to. You know what I mean. One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter

Your life can change. The moment you finally say to yourself, ''I've had it! I know I'm much more than I'm demonstrating mentally, emotionally, and physically in my life." Only you can decide to alter your life. You can decide to change certain aspects of your life. You can decide to never again settle for less than you can be or for anything other than you deserve."

What is family? They were the people who claimed you. In good, in bad, in parts or in whole, they were the ones who showed up, who stayed in there, regardless. It wasn’t just about blood relations or shared chromosomes, but something wider, bigger. We have many families over time. Our family of origin, the family we created, and the groups you moved through while all of this was happening: friends, lovers, sometimes even strangers. None of them perfect and we couldn’t expect them to be. You can’t make any one person your world. The trick was to take what each could give you and build your world from it.

You were born to be real, not to be perfect. You’re here to be you, not to be what someone else wants you to be. Stand up for yourself, look them in the eye, and say “Don’t judge me until you know me, don’t underestimate me until you've challenged me, and don’t talk about me until you’ve talked to me

You deserve a day where worries don't get in the way of anything. A day where even if some people are insensitive or unkind, you're not going to mind because the blessings in your life are far greater than the burdens that people are trying to place on you.
Remember stay positive

Love & Be Happy & Inspire

How to Feel Kindness

Before you understand what kindness really is, you must first lose the things that have significant meaning to you.
You must feel your future dissolving in a moment, like sugar in your coffee.All the things you have saved, all the things you held in your hands, They must go.

Before you learn the tenderness of kindness, You must travel where the injured are left to die on the side of the road. 
You must see how this could be you. They were someone who journeyed through the night with their plans and a simple breath that kept them alive.

Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow can be deeper. You must wake with sorrow,  you must speak it until your voice catches the thread of all sorrows. 

It is then that kindness will be truly felt.  It is only kindness that will tie your shoes, and walk you out the door the buy your bread and milk.  It is only kindness that will raise its head from the crowd of  the world and say “Its you I’ve been looking for.” And then goes with you everywhere like a shadow or a friend.

Love and Be Happy and Be Inspired

I Believe

Things are Changing! But I hope you are still inspired by my Blogs!

This one Blog is called: I Believe!! I'm talking about the things that I believe in!

I believe -

That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I believe- 
That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and, you must forgive them for that. Because it will only make your friendship stronger!

I believe-
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance, and time. This is also goes for True Love!

I believe- 
That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. Even though it will always be the right thing to do!

I believe- 
That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be, and I may never become that person, but I will try so dam hard to get close!


I believe- 
That you should always leave loved ones with loving words, It could well be the last time you see them 

I believe- 
That you can keep going long after you can't.

I believe- 
That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I believe- 
That either you control your attitude or it controls you. Hopefully you control it!


I believe- 
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, 
regardless of the consequences. Not someone who scores the most goals in a football game.

I believe- 
That money is a lousy way of keeping score. Life isn’t about money, And Money does not make you happy.

I believe- 
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time! 

I believe- 
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up. And you will see them in a different light for it!

I believe- 
That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be unkind to others or myself!

I believe- 
That just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I believe- 
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've 
learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.


I believe- 
That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.


I believe- 
That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.


I believe- 
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.


I believe- 
That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other, And just
because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I believe- 
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I believe- 
That two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.


I believe- 
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I believe- 
That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I believe- 
That the people you care about most in life are the essence of life. Tell them today how much you love them and what they mean to you. Or they might not know!

Love & Be Happy!

:)

It Gets Personal.

People have been through so much. You could be best friends with that person and not even know about the things that they have been through!

It inspires me that people have so much courage that they are able to speak about what they have been through. They can write about it, sing about, even paint art about it.

They don’t live in constant fear what people will think about them. They are able to deal with the things they have been through.

Today, I have a poem for you all. This poem inspires me. People who can write about the things that they have been through, are truly amazing, they have immense strength and courage. There are many ways of expressing things in life, And I thought I would give it ago. 

The people who can do this; inspired me to do it!

So the Poem

Here it is,

This Little Girl

A little girl sad and alone

Cold and stiff like a stone

Tears run down her pretty little face

She can’t stand the feeling of his terrifying embrace

She knows what is about to come

And sadly nothing can be done

She knows it hurts, she knows its scary

She closes her eyes and pretends she is a fairy

She did this for a full 8 years

Hiding from everyone the pain, the tears

See, this man got away with what he did

He changed the life of this poor innocent kid

She relives it everyday in her mind

Trying to struggle free from his bind

This little girl, not so little anymore

Still lives through the memories, so there, so raw

What this man did hurts like a knife

He may as well have taken her life

From time to time she will see his face

At a park, at school or just any place

She get a chill to the bone

She thinks and wonders, will he follow me home

Once you have been violated in such way

You can’t help but to think, he will get me one day

Know matter what happens, he could be dead

Those years of your life are forever in your head

There is something in this you don’t see

The little girl in this story, She’s me

I know, this is only one step of many, but we are all taking this journey together!

Love and Be happy!!