Thoughts I Wanted To Share

These last few days have been really hard on me, So I have been searching frantically over these days for someone that speaks to me. I have found a few paragraphs that I would like to share. :)

Don’t forget who you really are. And I’m not talking about your so-called real name. All names are made up by someone else, even the one your parents gave you. You know who you really are. When you’re alone at night, looking up at the stars, or maybe lying in your bed in total darkness, you know that nameless person inside you…Your muscles will toughen. So will your heart and soul. That’s necessary for survival. But don’t lose touch with that person deep inside you, or else you won’t really have survived at all.

How would your life be different if you stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the day you stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others. You have to accept not everyone is going to love you back, that's why it's most important to love yourself

I don't know why we all hang on to something we know we’re better off letting go. It’s like we’re scared to lose what we don’t even really have. Some of us say we’d rather have that something than absolutely nothing, But the truth is, to have it halfway is harder than not having it at all

“It is dreadful when something weighs on your mind, not to have a soul to unburden yourself to. You know what I mean. One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter

Your life can change. The moment you finally say to yourself, ''I've had it! I know I'm much more than I'm demonstrating mentally, emotionally, and physically in my life." Only you can decide to alter your life. You can decide to change certain aspects of your life. You can decide to never again settle for less than you can be or for anything other than you deserve."

What is family? They were the people who claimed you. In good, in bad, in parts or in whole, they were the ones who showed up, who stayed in there, regardless. It wasn’t just about blood relations or shared chromosomes, but something wider, bigger. We have many families over time. Our family of origin, the family we created, and the groups you moved through while all of this was happening: friends, lovers, sometimes even strangers. None of them perfect and we couldn’t expect them to be. You can’t make any one person your world. The trick was to take what each could give you and build your world from it.

You were born to be real, not to be perfect. You’re here to be you, not to be what someone else wants you to be. Stand up for yourself, look them in the eye, and say “Don’t judge me until you know me, don’t underestimate me until you've challenged me, and don’t talk about me until you’ve talked to me

You deserve a day where worries don't get in the way of anything. A day where even if some people are insensitive or unkind, you're not going to mind because the blessings in your life are far greater than the burdens that people are trying to place on you.
Remember stay positive

Love & Be Happy & Inspire

How to Feel Kindness

Before you understand what kindness really is, you must first lose the things that have significant meaning to you.
You must feel your future dissolving in a moment, like sugar in your coffee.All the things you have saved, all the things you held in your hands, They must go.

Before you learn the tenderness of kindness, You must travel where the injured are left to die on the side of the road. 
You must see how this could be you. They were someone who journeyed through the night with their plans and a simple breath that kept them alive.

Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow can be deeper. You must wake with sorrow,  you must speak it until your voice catches the thread of all sorrows. 

It is then that kindness will be truly felt.  It is only kindness that will tie your shoes, and walk you out the door the buy your bread and milk.  It is only kindness that will raise its head from the crowd of  the world and say “Its you I’ve been looking for.” And then goes with you everywhere like a shadow or a friend.

Love and Be Happy and Be Inspired